My lover and I broke up. I have his picture and need to know of magical ways to

bring him back. I also have a picture of his ex who is taking him thru major changes what can I do

to make he back off him. thanks

Hello there my dear,
One of the most common questions that I hear is something along the lines of, “Is there a way /

spell that will make someone want to be with me / love me?”
Well, the short answer is, “No… there is not.”
One of the core precepts of the Wiccan faith is to harm no other. If you are weaving spells or

intoning rituals which are meant to sway the minds of others, then you are by definition harming

them.
Free will is one of the most precious gifts we have been granted. Spells and rituals that are

designed to infringe upon that free will and force others to do things by your design, instead of

in accord with their own will, steals that most precious of gift from them.
In addition, whatever feelings or desires that they manifested for you would never be real or

honest, but would instead simply be the manifestation of the magics. Would you really want to be

with someone under those circumstances? Never really knowing if their feelings for you were

genuine… or simply the product of magic?
So, in this particular case, my best advice to you is to take the time and put in the effort to do

things the old fashioned way. After all, anything really worth doing is certainly worth doing

right. If it is meant to be, then there is no need to rush or hurry things – and you will be much

happier in the long term from having not done something you would likely regret.