“I am so stressed I do not know where else to turn. Can you tell me a spell I know that you aren’t supposed to spell forpersonal gain but we really need help and soon so can you tell me where to turn and what I should do?”

If you understand that using a spell for personal gain is a bad thing, why would you do it?

Instead, what you should be doing is seeking assistance from the Universe to help you through your time of trouble. Sometimes, the assistance that we need is right in front of us, but we don’t have the knowledge or foresight to see it and accept it.

When the world seems to be falling down around your shoulders, it is sometimes hard to take a step back and look at it logically, but the best thing you can do it to relax and center yourself. Then, with Faith, give over your problems to the Universe.

If you are able to open yourself to the messages that the Universe is sending,  you will likely find that the solutions are starring you in the face. Sometimes, the answer means taking an unpleasant look at ourselves and determining what we have done to create the situation that we are in. Sometimes, the difficult situations are part of the Universe’s way of forcing us to do the things that we did not have the strength or conviction to do without a good swift kick in the pants.

For example,  I have a Wiccan friend that had been in the same job for 21 years. She was comfortable there and did not take any risks. Finally, the Universe made her job such a miserable place to be that she had to leave or sacrifice herself.  For awhile it was very bad and she almost lost everything. Then, she found her true calling, the one that she had been too busy to take on while she had a fulltime job.

Now, she is master of her own fate and able to help others. She is impacting the world around her in a positive way everyday and is happier than she has ever been. She is able to spend time with he rfriends and family and fofer them the support they need in ways that she could never have done before. Yes, she ahd to go through tough times to get there and yes, it required work from her, but she kept centering herself and listened to the messages being sent to her.