Can I make my boyfriend love me?

can you help me to get my boyfriend to tell me the truth about how he feels and if he is attracted to me

Hello there my dear, One of the most common questions that I hear is something along the lines of, %u201CIs there a way / spell that will make someone want to be with me / love me?%u201D Well, the short answer is, %u201CNo%u2026 there is not.%u201D One of the core precepts of the Wiccan faith is to harm no other. If you are weaving spells or intoning rituals which are meant to sway the minds of others, then you are by definition harming them. Free will is one of the most precious gifts we have been granted. Spells and rituals that are designed to infringe upon that free will and force others to do things by your design, instead of in accord with their own will, steals that most precious of gift from them. In addition, whatever feelings or desires that they manifested for you would never be real or honest, but would instead simply be the manifestation of the magics. Would you really want to be with someone under those circumstances? Never really knowing if their feelings for you were genuine%u2026 or simply the product of magic? So, in this particular case, my best advice to you is to take the time and put in the effort to do things the old fashioned way. After all, anything really worth doing is certainly worth doing right. If it is meant to be, then there is no need to rush or hurry things %u2013 and you will be much happier in the long term from having not done something you would likely regret.


Rose Ariadne: Providing “Magickal” answers to your Pagan, Wiccan, Witchcraft spell casting questions since 2006.

2 Responses to “Can I make my boyfriend love me?”

  1. Zenna says:

    So then when you sway someones mind out of doing something stupid, with your own words, that’s harming them too?

    No. I think a love spell is FINE if you love him. Hello! he’s your BOYFRIEND. You have a RIGHT to his affection!

  2. ChashireCat says:

    well, it’s different if you are not going out yet. Then don’t. But if you are, then maybe. It depends.

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