I divorced in may 2006 and I am very unhappy. I love my ex-husband very much, but I made so many mistakes. We have a 7 years old daughter. My ex have another relationship. My wish is to be with him again, but I don t know if it is posible. I am afraid he don t want me anymore. He says that the only thing that worked between us was passion and nothing else. He misses my passion, but he is afraid to begin a relationship with me. This woman is not like me, but she offer him a silent life, witch I didn t. What can I do to turn him back to me? I don t want to lose him,he told me he won t get married, because he divorced two times, but I am fraid of that. I love him and I need him so much, I even want to live anymore. Please help me!

I am so sorry to hear that you are miserable, but you cannot use magic to win your ex-husband back. First, love spells cast against a specific person always, always turn out in a way that you don’t want and second, whether it is right or not, he is with someone else right now. Wiccans never try to take someone away from their spouse or significant other.

However, you also mention that he is willing to talk with you about the relationship and that you have “made many mistakes.” One good way to improve your own life is to evaluate those mistakes and find out what you can do to keep from making them again.

When your ex-husband comes to see your daughter, let him know you are happy to see him, but don’t be clingy and needy. That will definitely turn him off. Show him, don’t tell him, the changes you are making in your life. Chances are if the mistakes you made affected your marriage, they affected your daughter. So, improve yourself…if not for you, then for her.

Let him see that you are doing the right things now and taking good care of your daughter. Once he loved you enough to marry you. That kind of love doesn’t just end, but neither does the pain that comes with divorce. Take care of the changes yuo need to make for you and your daughter and then see if you still feel that way about him. If so, you can talk to him about it again in about 6 months…give it time, or you just look desparate.