I´ve had 4 practitioners of different beliefs whom cast spells for me to reconcile with my ex. Until now I´ve yet to receive any positive response from him. I´m terrible hurt and sad of his indifference towards me. Do you cast spells? Can you do it for me?

I know this can be a hard answer to accept, but sometimes, no matter how much we want to reconcile with someone it simply isn’t right.

The pain that comes when someone we love ignores us is sometimes almost unbearable. And, it is made worse by the fact that they used to say they loved us as well.

However, sometimes we have to accpet that the answer we are being given is “NO”. Yes, we could try to cast anotehr love spell to bring you back together, but that is not the way to use the Craft. Forcing someone to do something, especially via magic, violates the basic tenets of the Wiccan faith…We believe that we can do what we will, as long as it harms no one else. Taking away someone’s free will is harm, whether it seems like it or not.

And, to be perfectly honest, the Faith works because of your belief in it. You said you have already tried four other spells. That leads me to believe that you are simply desparate to get him back and not at all looking at this from a religious standpoint. Wicca is not a series of cute tricks or neat spells to be used whenever you feel like it. It is a belief system and a matter of faith. If you don’t believe in the Craft, you have no business using it.

You didn’t say what other faiths had cas spells for you, but you really should consider two options: 1) Your lack of faith led to the spells not working. 2) The spells woked, but the universe decided he is not the one for you. I know it can be hard to accept, but sometimes what we think we want is not what is best for us and the universe, like a loving parent, tells us no.