Please help lately if I am on my menstrual cycle I bring all the women that come in contact with me on their cycles (my 58 year old aunt who had not bled in four years came to see me five months ago she is now having cycles like clock work with me ) also If I hurt my self the people I love hurt in the same place . Some of my family will not be around me and they call me a curse.

Merry Meet Seeker, It is not surprising that women who come together for a month or more get their menstrual cycles in sync. You can explain to the members in your family that there is a very “scientific” explanation why women’s cycles tend to come together when they live together. It is a phenomena called “Synchronous Menstruation” which has been proven scientifically. Check out the following webpages: http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/532/do-the-menstrual-cycles-of-women-living-together-tend-to-synchronize http://factoidz.com/why-do-womens-menstrual-cycles-get-in-sync/ Many studies have been done to confirm this as you can see above. This may have to do with hormones or stresses in life or it may have to do with subtle smells that women have during the different periods of menstruation. Regardless of what your relatives think, it is time to set the matter straight and tell them that you are not doing anything wrong, its natural to sync our menstual cycles. It may have to do with the energies or our body or our ability to sync emotionally with others. As we all are aware, our bodies are just the tip of the iceberg. Our emotional and spiritual environment is vastly untapped and the so-called “scientists” are just beginning to scratch the surface of all its mysteries. As Wiccans we know that our energies are powerful and can enable us to create any environment we want to. So rest easy and explain to others that you are not a curse, but a wonderful role model Hope this helps. Rose.