does my baby daddy really love me and want to be with me?

Hello dear. Sometimes when we make a child with someone before we are confident in the way a man feels about us, their feelings and ours get confused by the feelings of responsibility for our child and fear of what the future holds. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, but just because he wants to take care of his baby doesn’t mean he does love you either. Chances are you already know the answer to your question, but aren’t ready to face it. How does he treat you? Is he good to you? Does he want to ahng out with you or does he visit just for the baby or just for sex? Ultimately, the easiest way to tell if a man loves you or not is to watch how he behaves. A man who loves you will be kind and generous and interested in what you think. If he is not treating you this way, talk to him about it. Some men are terrified after they have a baby and have no idea how to behave anymore. Having a child often forces them to grow up before they are ready and while we all know it takes two to make a baby, some men blame the woman for it. If you think he cares, but he’s just being a dork since your baby was born, sit down and talk about it. If he was a jerk before you got pregnant and still is, you may need to decide if you and the baby are better off without him.