i was just wondering if you know of a spell to get my boyfriend to notice me again? weve been together for 2 years and have a 1 year old son i dont need a love spell as i know he loves me he just spends alot of time with his friends or on his computer and bearly knows im alive i take care of all the cooking, cleaning, taking care of our son and paying the bills while my bf does nothing, he doesnt even work hes not a bad person i think hes in a rut and id like to help him out of it as much ass i can (although i know its really down to him) im so soeey im being so longwinded im just at my witts end with him so a spell to help him notice me and one to make him feel more motivated would be a life saver thank you for taking the time to read about my silly little problems

Hello there my dear, I can offer you a spell that will help boost your self esteem… which will hopefully have one of two effects: 1) You will feel better about yourself and thus seem more appealing and attractive to your boyfriend again as such…. or 2) It will help you have the self confidence to realize that he is a bum and is leeching off you and not doing any of the things he should be doing… and you will be able to kick him to the proverbial curb and get on with your life…. A Spell to Encourage Self Esteem Lacking that happy knack of making friends easily? If you are asked to a party, do you stand around like the proverbial wallflower while everyone else is engaged in happy conversations and the sound of everybody else’s laughter fills the room? Or maybe your career is stuck in a rut and you see no way to make that break for yourself to get ahead? If you think, “That’s me!” about any of these, then maybe the answer lies in a lack of self-esteem and the following will help…. You will need: A bath Lavender essential oil Jasmine essential oil An essential oil burner Seven green oak leaves (Basil can be used if oak is out of season) One purple candle One yellow candle Purple thread An envelope First, start a warm bath running and drizzle some of the lavender oil into the water. Next light both candles and sit them near the bath. Float the leaves in the bath and climb in. Breathe in through your nose and hold it for a count of seven. Breathe out through your mouth for a seven count. Repeat this process six more times. As you breathe in, visualize your lungs filling up with warm, golden light. As you breathe out, see your frustrations in your breath and watch your anger, pain, and all of the other barriers that stand in your way float away with each exhalation. Now, totally relaxed and at ease with yourself, visualize a spot of golden light above you. Watch it get bigger and bigger before it floats down and your body is enveloped in its warm glow. At this point, repeat the following: “I have a contribution to make. I have words to say. Let others hear the words I speak. And take self-doubt away. And let it be done, that it harm no one.” Repeat these words six more times before leaving the bath and snuffing the candles. Thread the oak leaves onto the string and then hold them up to the light and repeat the previous verse one last time. Fold the leaves into the envelope and place the envelope into your handbag or wallet. End the ritual by burning the jasmine oil in the burner and letting the scent of it waft over you, removing any last traces of self-doubt.