I am about to bless the salt and water. I am trying to purify myself and my home. I am trying to rid my heart of a man I dearly love who is very deeply evil at heart. I would like to know if there is a way to cleanse him without him knowing what I am doing. I want to save him as much as myself. I know he is evil hearted, I about gave my life for him the other night. The Mother Goddess did not see fit for me to end my life for him, that he was not worth my soul. I know I need to rid him from my life, but I want to be able to look into his eyes when we both finally pass on. It is his hand I want to hold in the afterlife and have him walk with me, but as long as he remains evil and black hearted, there will be no chance of that. I would have traded my soul for him, buy I was stopped by a stronger power. How can you help me. What divination can loosen the grip the darkness has on his soul. He says that he has changed, but I saw it in his eyes today, it is still very much a part of his life and of his soul. He is 54, born September 24th, 1952. He is soft spoken, but short tempered. He has a jealous streak a mile wide, he is dominating and passionate as well. He takes control and places himself in a position that leaves no room for another choice. He is also dominating when it comes to sex. He has drawn blood from my neck and from my back. He has tasted my blood and taken of me. I am afraid he has taken part of my soul. I felt him reach into me the first time he kisses me and take something from very deep inside of me. I love him, or maybe it is fear. I really need help. Thank you for your time Please guide me.

Hello there my dear, While I can offer you a charm to help cleanse yourself and your home, I cannot give you something to change the mind of another. The path we walk is one of individual choice and free will, and so it is up to the individual to choose their own road – whether it be for the better or the worse. And while we might offer guidance and enlightenment along the way, it is not our place, or our right, to try and make their choices for them…. A Spell to Mend a Broken Heart Cast this spell on Friday, the day sacred to Venus, when you have been let down in love and think your heart will never mend. But rest assured that it will. Some of the ingredients for this spell may need to be specially bought, so make sure to consecrate them before you use them. You will need: A teabag of strawberry tea A willow wand Sea Salt Two pink candles A mirror A pink drawstring bag A crystal of quartz A copper coin A crystal bowl that has some sentimental value to you One teaspoon of orris root powder One teaspoon of dried jasmine One teaspoon of yarrow A small handful of strawberry leaves Ten drops of apple blossom essential oil Ten drops of strawberry essential oil Place one of the pink candles at the end of a bath and start to fill the tub with warm water. With the water running, prepare a cup of strawberry tea. When the bath is ready, light the candle and soak in the warm water until you feel relaxed enough to weave the spell. As you dry off, sip the strawberry tea and then dab the strawberry oil around your face. Make your way to your altar and cast a circle with the willow wand. Now light the second pink candle and put the other ingredients into the crystal bowl. Stir them thoroughly, while speaking the following: %u201CMother Earth I ask you for nurture and protection. Give me the confidence to use the strength I have. And let it be done, that it harm no one.%u201D When everything is thoroughly mixed, look at your reflection in the mirror and speak the following: %u201CMother Earth, help me to be the person I know I am, And let me overcome my difficulty. And let it be done, that it harm no one.%u201D Pour half the mixture into the drawstring bag along with the coin and the crystal and close the magic making in your usual way. Leave the bowl containing the other half of the mixture in a place where you will be able to enjoy the fragrance. Keep the bag with you at all times and sleep with it under your pillow until you feel your broken heart healing.