there a guy in my past who i was never with but i know we had feelings for eachother evn though we never discussed it. we havent spoken in 4 years but i had a 2 pyschics tell me he is my soulmate and that he will be calling but he hasnt called i know he is with someone and wonder is he having a hard time being able to get my number and to call me. either way i just need to talk to him to find out if he still feels the same and wants to be with me but i dont know how to get in touch with him. is there any spell i can do or anything to let him know just to call me please help me its really driving me crazy not knowing what to do

It’s always difficult when someone tells you that you belong with an ex, especially when someone you trust is telling you that he is your destiny. But, that doesn’t always mean right now and that you should try to force the issue.

First, try to consider everything the psychics told you. Did they say that he should be with you right now or that he would be with you eventually? Did they mention him after you did, or before? Did they say he would try to contact you, or that he would contact you?

Some people claiming to psychic will simply tell you the things you want to hear and if you mentioned this young man first, there is a chance that the psychics just picked up what they heard in your voice and based their predictions on the fact that you still miss him and care deeply for him. It is also possible that this young man is inf act your soulmate and that you will be together someday.

Unfortunately, the universe’s view of someday and our view are not always compatible. I have known people who spent their entire lives apart and then reunited after their first spouses were gone and their children grown. The psychics could have been predicting something like that for you.

Try considering why you broke up with him in the first place. Have things changed? Would it be good for you, not just fun, but stable and healthy, for you to be together?  What kind of relationship is he in now?

As hard as it can be, sometiems we have to make sacrifices to be with the people we love. That can mean waiting for them to grow up and be the person they were intended to be, or it can mean loving them even though we are not in a relationship with them.

A love spell is NOT the answer to your problem. If you know how to contact this young man, send him an email or a short letter mentioning that you have been thinking about him and wishing him well. If he is your soulmate, then being his friend first is the most important thing you can do.

By reaching out to him, you make certain that when the time comes, he can contact you and you show him your caring soul. Often, we draw love to ourselves best by offering love to others.