I have been married 13 years, this Christmas when I returned from work my husband was gone took everything he ever owned. He loves me hes told me but claims he needs space, meanwhile I feel I’m losing him completely, I recently visited a spiritualist and claims he wants to come home but that someone like a family member had cast a hard spell on him also known as “Brujeria” (mexican witchcraft) how do I go about this, I want him home now?

Did someone tell you that a brujera had cast a spell on your husband?

Is someone in his family actively involved in Mexican witchcraft?

The best thing you can do is talk with your husband and ask him where his need for space comes from. To be honest, after 13 years, he may just be “finding himself” and not wanting to lose you, but still wanting to be free. Were you young when you got married? It’s not unusual for men, and women, to go throguh a midlife crisis and it often has nothing to do with spells and witchcraft.

Begin by talking with him and finding out what he has in mind. I know you wnat him to come home as soon as possible, but trying to pressure him, especially after he has expressed a need for “space” will only drive him farther away.

Be prepared when you go talk to him to hear things that you may not want to hear, like that he doesn’t want to come right away. And, be prepared to listen to what he does want. Ask him very directly what led to his decision to move out and what you can do to help him with his concerns.

You should also be prepared for him to bring up his perceived concerns about your marriage. Try not to be defensive and simply listen to his concerns. Once he has finished, calm and center yourself and respond to his concerns as logically as possible. If his concerns are completely illogical, then approach your local coven about the possibility that he has been bespelled and asked for assistance.