Getting Rid of Someone….

I have a friend that is in an unhealthy relationship. She is being abused by her boyfriend and those that follow him. Him and his friends have brought choas into our lives. But my best friend (my bosem friend, and soultwin) doesn’t seem to be able to make a complete decision to leave him…So she stays with him. He must be done away with and with how much I want to I would cast all hell on him but I do not need bad karma on me like last time I did that. I don’t like to hurt people at all. I am a healer but I have to get rid of him. What do I do?? Thank you for helping me

Hello there my dear,

Part of the Wiccan Rede – arguably the most important part – is to harm no other. Unfortunately, too many people seem to take that only in a physical sense, as opposed to all of the other ways in which we might bring about harm.

Let me explain….

Free will, the ability to make our own decisions, be they for weal or for woe, is a gift – one of the most precious gifts we have been granted.

Thus, if we were to take away the gift of free will from others, we are, without a doubt, doing them harm and thus breaking the most sacred of our tenants in the process.

So, whether you like hearing it or not, there is not some quick fix method for changing the minds of those around you.

If you want to effect a change in them and the way in which they are behaving, then you are going to have to do it the old fashioned way – which entails sitting down and talking with them about the problems and seeing if you can perhaps reach an amicable solution to whatever the issue at hand might be.

To do otherwise would fall into the realm of black magic… and I have no truck with that or with those that would even entertain the notion of using it.

“Making people go away….”,”I need to get Shane, Kevin, Deo, and their cronies out of my greatest friend’s life. What could I do to make them go away and still keep my friendship with my loved one? I am powerful but I need advice on how to wield it.

Hello there my dear,

Part of the Wiccan Rede – arguably the most important part – is to harm no other. Unfortunately, too many people seem to take that only in a physical sense, as opposed to all of the other ways in which we might bring about harm.

Let me explain….

Free will, the ability to make our own decisions, be they for weal or for woe, is a gift – one of the most precious gifts we have been granted.

Thus, if we were to take away the gift of free will from others, we are, without a doubt, doing them harm and thus breaking the most sacred of our tenants in the process.

So, whether you like hearing it or not, there is not some quick fix method for changing the minds of those around you.

If you want to effect a change in them and the way in which they are behaving, then you are going to have to do it the old fashioned way – which entails sitting down and talking with them about the problems and seeing if you can perhaps reach an amicable solution to whatever the issue at hand might be.

To do otherwise would fall into the realm of black magic… and I have no truck with that or with those that would even entertain the notion of using it.”
“Will this work?”,”will this work

Hello there dear,

One of the questions that I am most often asked is simply, %u201CDoes magic really exist %u2013 and if so, then how can I go about learning to do it?%u201D

Well, my short answer to this is, %u201CYes, in my opinion, magic does really exist %u2013 and like anything else worth doing, you learn through lots of practice and hard work.%u201D

Now let me go ahead and elaborate and explain a bit more. To me, magic is simply a term attached to tapping into previously forgotten or unlearned human potential. I believe that there was a time when many more goodly people were able to perform feats that would typically be referred to in common vernacular as %u201Cmagic%u201D %u2013 but, unfortunately, over the centuries as science and logic and so called rational thought came into ascendance, what had been learned slowly became unlearned. The old ways were abandoned and forgotten in the relentless pursuit of what was the equivalent of the next big fad.

This, of course, happened for a variety of reasons. For some it was simple lack of practice and willpower. For others it was that they had never developed the gifts in the first place. And for yet others, there was the forceful conversion from the wise crafts to the more socially acceptable modes of science and logic %u2013 and it is only in recent times that the bigotry has subsided enough to allow practitioners to once again be open with their art%u2026 at least in the majority of the western world.

As to how to learn to do it, well, the majority of it is about self discipline and willpower. It is amazing what the human will is capable of once we learn how to focus and hone it. But, again, learning this is not a quick or easy process. It takes time and effort%u2026 and is certainly not for people looking for instant gratification or overnight results.

For those interested in learning proper techniques for focusing their will and practicing magics, I would suggest a trip to either a good bookstore that caters to such%u2026 or even just a brief sojourn to the local library. Study is the start%u2026 and practice does, indeed, make perfect.


Rose Ariadne: Providing “Magickal” answers to your Pagan, Wiccan, Witchcraft spell casting questions since 2006.

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