i need to put a curse on a guy that is blind by love and he knows i love him and he loves me too but he keeps making the wrong decisions in life and he keeps hurting me because we don’t talk for day n i write something in my facebook status one day n he goes caring like if i didnt need his help before n then he just drives me crazy sometimes n its really a long story to explain but i really really need an answer..

Merry Meet Seeker,
One of the most important rules of the Universe is that we, as individuals have our own brain, emotions and spirit. No one is allowed to tamper with it or negative results will be heaped on the person who tries to persuade or control another person. This rule also pertains to all living things. Just because we have the power to hurt others does not mean that it is okay to do so.
In your case, you want to put a curse on someone because he is doing what he wants to do? Of course, you are asking for trouble. In life, the ones who win are those who learn the rules of the Universe and always remembers it. If a person keeps making the wrong decisions, it is his problem. He needs to learn from it by himself and only then will he understand the repercussions of such a decision.
You, however, have to find a genuine and loving way to get his attention without much criticism or negative inputs. Only love can heal a relationship. No amount of threats, anger, blame or pressure can get a person to love another. No one likes to be told what to do. If you feel frustrated with the relationship, write a long letter to him and make him understand your dilemma.
Only through loving dialogues can you get him to understand why you are so frustrated.
Brightest Blessings
Rose.