ok, so this is my first time talking about this kind of thing to strangers or what not lol. But anyway, I’m having a serious problem. You see, my family on my mother’s side has the ability to see the future in our dreams. It skips generations and unfornately it fell on me and my sister. My sister doesn’t really see anything bad, it’s always something good, but me, I see everything bad. If I have a dream and it seemed realistic, I know that it was most likely a vision and I’m always right. Like, two months before the tradegy in Haiti happened, I dreamed about it, but I couldn’t understand it. You see my dreams don’t always come crystal clear, sometimes it’s like trying to put together a puzzle. Anyway, I saw this horrible thing happen, children running in Haiti and schools falling down, people dieing and I told my sister about it. She told me not to worry about it and two months later, look what happened. So yeah, all I have is really bad premonitions and it really freaks me out to the point I wake up crying, because lately, I’m starting to feel the pain as well. I didn’t use to, but in my dream, I can feel the stuff now. The last dream I had was about a volcano erupting and people running to their homes, I drew a picture of what I remembered from my dream and a week later, the same volcano in my dream erupted for real, it was the one in Mexico, can’t remember the name. But my sister was a bit skeptical when I was telling her about this. One day, I was going through recent eruption pictures and I saw one all too fimilar. I put my picture up to it and it was exactly the same. I had put the date on my drawing for the day I had the dream and I found out the volcano erupted three days or so after that and it all looked exactly the same, the scenery, the way the trees were, the way the smoke was blowing. That’s how I knew my dreams were starting not to be a joke anymore. Anyway, not to bore you any longer, I’ve had this sense I was about fourteen I believe. Thirteen going on fourteen and I didn’t tell my mother about the horrible things I was seeing until about three years later. I didn’t tell her how horrible they actual are though, so she doesn’t know. But yeah, that’s when she told me it runs in the family, she did tell me it can be a little freaky sometimes, but I never told her exactly what I see. So here’s my question. Is there a way to make it better? These visions I see are getting worse and like i said, I’m beginning to feel the pain and fear that are captured by these people before it even happens to them. I don’t know how to explain it, but I need help asap or I might lose it. I’m only seventeen years old, and this is putting alot of stress on my mind…Can anyone help me cope? Also, if I may add, I have this other ability. When I was smaller, I was able to see ghost, but my mother said she was sure it was no bad ones what so ever because she saw them too. And now, I can’t see them, but I can feel and hear them. Recently, when my great aunt died and I stayed at her house for weeks, I kept getting this invisible pat on my head and wierd talking to, but I never said anything. My family believes in this stuff, I do to, but could the whole interacting with ghost, be effecting my dreams? Is that what could be making it worse? Look, I don’t specifically understand what I’m saying, all I know is I’m seventeen and I have this unfortunate gift, but I believe I have it for a reason, and I need help coping or trying to understand, I’m not sure. But I saw I could ask questions at this place and people here believe, so I would like to ask for you guys’s help..can you help me?

Merry Meet Seeker,
I know how weird it can be when you feel someone patting on your head but see no one around you or seeing disasters before they happen, etc. However, there is no reason to fear. You are blessed with psychic powers that you will have to gradually work with.
Some people believe that prodigies are possible because of the advantages that they had in a previous life. As you are good at predicting or “seeing” events before they occur, you can actually help others in your life.
I can understand your bewilderment but do not fear, in due time, you will be able to warn the world about disasters and save the lives of thousands or millions of people.
There are many ways by which you can increase your powers. First begin a diary where you can write down every thought that you have or any vision you get. Also write down what you feel about this situation.
As you go through your diary, you will be able to understand the premonitions and the links that lead to worldwide events. Also, try to find a good (professional and successful) psychic and try to take some lessons from them. Meanwhile, take care of your education and other natural progressions in life.
Now you know that although life is like putting together a puzzle, in the end, you will be happy that you have these powers and can use them for the help of mankind.
Brightest Blessings
Rose.