You see, Rose, I love this guy and I don’t know if he feels the same way. I’m just beggining witchcraft, so is there a simple spell that will SURELY have him fall in love with me and so I can be sure he does? If not exactly, how can I find out if he does?
Merry Meet Seeker,
It is wonderful to hear that you are a beginner in Witchcraft. I hope that you will enjoy your life to the fullest with the help of Wicca. However, one of the biggest rules in Wicca is that we should not force anyone to do anything or our life will be in jeopardy.
We cannot, at any cost, force anyone to fall in love with us. The Universe has given us so many ways by which we can find out if the guy we love also loves us back. Simple conversational style, loving and eager looks, gentle suggestions, eyes full of softness, etc. are indications that the person with you is very attracted to you.
In addition, giving flowers and all kinds of gifts are also indicators of love. Another way to determine if someone loves us when they take us out and you both have a great time dining, dancing, listening to music or other entertainment.
The best way to find out if the person you love also loves you back is to ask them about it. Be positive and hopeful, but do not persuade them or force them to reveal the answer. Also, never attempt any spells to have more influence on him. Any forceful magick work will only backfire. As adults, we should be able to gently grow our relationship and slowly understand the ways of love and marriage.
Brightest Blessings
Rose.