Dear Rose, I have been subscribed to your
newsletter for quite a while and I’ve seen how you have helped all these
brillant people; so maybe you can help me. I’m a gay male living in the heart of
the “Bible Belt” and I am completely head over heels in love with a straight
man. He’s a wonderful person, and I wish I could have him. Also, he knows how I
feel. However, I won’t change him. This unrequited love has put a great deal of
stress on me, and has pretty well put my life at a stand still. I don’t want to
be in love with some one who can’t return my love. Is there any way to put my
life in motion again via magic or any other means? Any answers are greatly (monstrously!) appreciated. Safety and peace,
Doug

Merry Meet Doug,
I can understand your dilemma. It may be heartbreaking to fall in love with someone who is not interested in you but it can be devastating to know that there is absolutely no way for you to even get to know him. However, life is funny and all we can is laugh at ourselves.

It happens all the time. We fall for the wrong person for all the wrong reasons. Sometimes we think that our hearts are blind. Can’t they see that you are rushing headlong into a disaster? Unless a gay man can change overnight and become not-so-gay, you have very little chance of getting together with him.

Most of us have experienced unrequitted love at one time or another. In your case, unfortunately, waiting for him to change his orientation or his desires may not happen. As you know that you are gay, he also knows that he is not.

Unfortunately, magick does not have any answers to that because it enters the realm of the three fold rule which gives us back even more suffering if we try to force another entity to CHANGE for our sake. If you can see it from his point of view, you will understand that he won’t change. He was kind enough to let you know that too.
Now, your only option is to grieve and grow through this experience and wait for the day when you will totally fall in love again to the right man!

Meanwhile, visualize your future partner as someone with all the qualities you admire in this man who has completely impressed you. There are more than six billion people in the world. Believe me, you will find your perfect partner very soon!

Brightest Blessings
Rose.