Hi , my ex bf ../ fiance .. broke up randomly..for a reason of his older sis not being married. he had made my lyfe hell … his sis and mom have made lewd comments abt us and projected really bad stuff abt me and my family. i backed out once in the past 1.5 yes and dey cudnt take it.. i went back to him and tried to make him brkup but now i feel like it is best v get married asap. coz the emore v delay more r da problems. i really need help in making his family agree to fix a date for the wedding .and he shud commit

Merry Meet Seeker,
I can see that this is really a dilemma for you whether to get married or not. When it comes to this situation, it is indeed best not to make any hasty decisions. First of all, his family is not being friendly and has already commented about you. How does your fiance feel about that? If you can stay away from his family, maybe travel and settle down in another country, maybe you will have a chance to have a peaceful marraige.
However, if you will have to stay with or near the parents’ home, your marriage will have very little chance of success. As for your fiance, he seems to be oblvious of all that is happening. It is time to take the matter in your hands and talk to your fiance about what he envisions for your relationship. Is he ready for marriage? Does he condone his family’s comments about you? Will he be supportive as a husband? How long does he want to wait before marriage?
It is very important that both partners are ready for marriage for the right reasons. Jumping into a marriage with so many issues already is not a great idea. It is bes to plan your wedding slowly and get everyone including his family and yours to agree to the festivities and future of your life.
So do not jump in haste just to have a marriage. Make sure that this is the right time, right person and right place for you.
Brightest Blessings
Rose.