hi…my name is Trivanie and i have a problem with my boy-friend’s mother she seem to hate me…i can’t say a reason why…how can i get her to accept me as her daughter-in-law…I really love my bf very must and i want a futuer with him…and i also want to get along great with his MUM. PLZ HELP ME ROSE…!

Merry Meet Trivanie, I am happy to hear that you you and your boyfriend love each other very much. That is the beginning of every great love story. To maintain the bonds of love, you will initially need to work hard and allow your boyfriend’s mother to see you as the loving person your own mother thinks you are. The first thing is to promise yourself that you will be patient, kind and loving to this person regardless of how she behaves with you. Ask your boyfriend to describe her activities, her joys, her hobbies and her pet peeves to you. Learn all about her and be open to everything. Do not judge her for any reason. When you know her a little more, you will be in a position to go to his house or meet his mother somewhere. Make sure you take a gift or at item for her hobby. Make sure that she gets your gift and ask her if it is something she likes. If not, tell her patiently that you would like to make her something instead of the gift she may not have enjoyed. Learn to share something with her, such as a liking for cooking, movies, shopping, etc. Offer to take her out with you and find out more about her as you converse. The more you know about her, the more subjects you will have for more conversation. As you get more familiar, your stress of seeing her or worrying about her hating you, etc will disappear. If she really has a problem with you, gently bring it up and ask her what you can do to remove that problem. If you work hard without judging the person, you will be able to find out what is bothering her and how you can prevent it from ruining your relationship with your boyfriend. When you give love, you will get love back. Brightest Blessings. Rose.