I need your help my boyfriend and I have had problems because his family and best friend always interefered in our relationship. We had a fight i moved out and before I left I told him he wouldn’t find anyone else like me. Since then we’ve talked and tried things but he has two other girls in his life he meet them through dating websites eharmony and match. I can’t get over him and these girls are pretty determined I called one of them and she said she didn’t care that until he didn’t tell her she wasnt going to stop she even leaves him notes in his car. The other girl also won’t stop and I don’t know what to do I found pictures and numbers and text messages we had an argument some days he says he doesn’t know how to stop talking to them and others he is really mean to me what can I do please help me I am desperate and.I don’t know whT to do anymore help me please

Merry Meet Seeker,
You seem to be an intelligent and friendly person. I am sure you had a good reason to move out. Do not worry that you may not get that relationship back. Everything happens for a reason. You may not understand this now, but in a few years, you will realize that what happens to us makes us stronger.
Your ex-boyfriend may be trying to hurt you since you were the one who moved out. His behavior is a good indication of how he will be even if you get back together. Many women yearn for a man who has already proved not-very-worthy. Some women seem to be attracted to guys who have a tendency to hurt them. Even after getting hurt, women still may want to return to these men.
For a long term relationship, we need a person on whom we can depend all our life. As we learn from our life lessons, we realize that there are many good people in this world and that we don’t have to keep thinking of one that we knew before. Why not try to date newer people from any of those dating sites? Of course you may have to be careful about them and remember not to give them a lot of information before you get to know them well.
As you find more and more friends, you will see that you have a lot of options in life. At that point, you may even forget your ex and be ready to leave him and his girlfriends to their drama. Be confident that you can easily get a partner who will love you and care for you for life.
Brightest Blessings.
Rose.