Hi Rose i have a question i want my boyfriend to forget my pass because my past brings a lot of trouble to our relationship… Is there any way he or you could make him forget my pass?? I dont want him to remember what i told him about my pass, about my other relations or just guy friends. any suggestions???

Merry Meet Seeker, It is always a good idea not to speak about our past even if we are asked for it. It is unfortunate that you had done so. It only shows how genuine and honest you are. You have a good heart, but the rest of the world is not ready for it, obviously. There isn’t much you can do in this situation because you cannot control or affect your boyfriend in any way. What he thinks and what he says and what he remembers are in his own private world. Now that you have told him all about your past, it is impossible to make him forget what you told him. However, you can try to explain that you were young and naive and have learned from your mistakes (if any). Remember, if he is not ready to forgive you at this time, he may bring it up later in your relationship. It is a good idea to see a counselor and try to work it out so that he is at peace with your past and will not bring it up later. Of course, there is no guarantee, but a good counselor can make him understand that the past is over and maing a big fuss about the past is really childish. There is nothing that you need to do magickally since this involves his mind and spirit. You don’t need to get the three fold return from any negative consequences. Hope you both can work it out together (with a promise from him that he will not drag ithese memories out later in life) and enjoy life together from now on. On th other hand, if he is the type to harp on the past and abuse you with it, it is time to let go. Brightest Blessings. Rose.