hi! i really like this boy and i want him to add me on facebook. in fifth grade he would always like talk to me in school and i thought he was annoying. but then i started to like him at the end of that year and then the rest of the years he wasn’t in my class. i got a facebook the summer goin into 8th grade. and he made one around the same time. now i am goin into my freshmen year. i really want him to add me on facebook. but i don’t want to add him. is there anyway you can see if he will add me sometime? if not can you make him add me? i really want him my friend on facebook. thanks.

Merry Meet Seeker, I can see that you really want to know him better. It is good that you both know each other from the past. So there are many ways by which you can get closer. However, there is one thing I would like to warn you about: It is never a good idea to force anyone to do anything. Period. A relationship will last only if both friends (or partners) have come into it with an open mind and on their own volition. From your message, I see that you would really like to become friends with him. There is nothing wrong with that. Obviously you have a strong attraction towards him and would like to know him better. The best way to get him to contact you is to contact him first. If you do not wish to friend him on Facebook, find other ways to connect with him. Do you know any of his friends on Face book? If you can confide in them, let them know that you know him. Maybe your name will come into the conversation somehow. You could invite him to a party if you know his email. Or ask another friend to suggest your name as a friend on FB. This may work because he already knows you and your friend is also suggesting you for friendship. Other ways to talk to him would be to find out where he hangs out after school and what he does on weekends. Then you can casually meet him and suggest friending him. It is okay if you friend him. If you are just afraid of his rejection, well, waiting this long may be more tiring that getting an answer to your desperate question, correct? Be brave and friend him if nothing else works. Brightest Blessings. Rose.