I am heartbroken. It has been 2 1/2 years now and I still miss him everyday. I don’t understand when we are told to follow our hearts and yet when our hearts are broken the best thing is to let go. This does not make sense to me, If you follow your heart how can you let go? Is there spell that can help me let go of him?

First, understand this: Each old love will hold some place in your heart and mind, but there is something better out there for you.

I want to give you the basics to cast a spell and then I will offer some suggestions for you to try.

Keep in mind that sometimes magick is not instantaneous and you will have to do this more than once.

A Spell to Break the Bonds of Love Work

Within a circle, begin with this incantation to the Lady:

“Lady of power and of compassion, grant me compassion and your power, to loosen, break and burn, these bonds upon him/her, and by releasing bless and bless and bless.”

Repeat this chant three times or until you feel that the power has been given to you. Then envision the person you wish to release and say:

“Flesh to flesh, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Eye to eye, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Tongue to tongue, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Head to head, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Heart to heart, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Loin to loin, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Breast to breast, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Name to name, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed.”

Whenever you say the word “freed,” envision open skies. Whenever you say the word “freely,” envision light surrounding the person you are releasing. Whenever you say “broken,” break a length of white thread in the flame of a candle. This thread is to symbolize the relationship bond. When you are done, chant:

“I give you now, a new beginning, and a happiness. I give you ease and comfort, give your name into the good hands of the Lady, whom I thank, and thank and praise, and in whose power I make this be.”

If the bond is slight, no invocation to the Lady is needed, just alter the spell just so:

“Name of person, hear: the bond is broken. Flesh to flesh, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Eye to eye, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Tongue to tongue, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Head to head, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Heart to heart, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Loin to loin, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Breast to breast, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed. Name to name, the bond is broken. You are freed, and freely blessed.”

And then while breaking the thread, chant:

“I give you now, a new beginning, and a happiness. I give you ease and comfort, bless your ways. This is my will and so must be.”

This is another possibility for you…

A Spell to Ease a Broken Heart

You will need: strawberry tea, small wand or stick from a willow tree, sea salt, two pink candles, a mirror, one pink drawstring bag, one quartz crystal, one copper penny, a special bowl made of china or crystal, one teaspoon of dried jasmine, one teaspoon of orris-root powder, one teaspoon of strawberry leaves, one teaspoon of yarrow, ten drops of apple blossom oil or peach oil, ten drops of strawberry oil.

Be sure to charge all these ingredients before you begin.

One a Friday morning or evening, (the day sacred to Venus) take a bath in sea salt in the light of a pink candle. As you dry off and dress, sip the strawberry tea. Use a dab of strawberry oil as perfume or cologne. Groom yourself to look your best.

Cast a circle with the willow wand around a table of the other ingredients. Light the second pink candle. Mix all oils and herbs in the bowl. While you stir, look at yourself in the mirror and chant:

“Oh, Great Mother Goddess, enclose me in your loving arms, and nurture and bring forth the Goddess within me.”

Gaze deeply into the mirror after you have finished mixing the ingredients and chant:

“I represent the Great Goddess, Mother of all things. I shine in the light of the Golden Wings of Isis. All that is great and loving only belongs to me.”

Then put half the mixture in the pink bag, and add the penny and quartz. Carry it with you always. Leave the other half of the potion in the bowl, out in a room where you will smell the fragrance. Repeat this ritual every Friday if necessary. A local health food or new age store should have the items you need.