hey, i am abhyuday….n i get your emails on magic…but theres one thing i wanted to ask you…its just an advice…ok..i am in love with a girl named disha..i really love her,my feelings for her are as clean as water,i want nothing else but her…but theres one problem she takes me as her brother…now how can i express my love when she thinks that i am like a brother to her……..so, is there any way out…if yes then please tell me
Merry Meet Abhyuday,
I am happy to hear that you receive my mails on magick. Hope you are trying some of the spells that I’ve sent to you.
There are more questions about Love than any other category. Many people send me questions about Love since it is something none of us can live without. I am happy to hear that you are in love with a girl named Disha.
Wicca is a powerful religion which can do wonders for us, but there are some rules that we need to know. First and foremost, Wiccan is for ourself. We can change ourselves any which way we want to. We can create our future, add many features and remove others, but we are not allowed to control other’s lives.
Because of this rule, in this situation, you may not work on a spell to make her fall in love with you. The right way is to slowly get to know her better and speak to her about your situation. As adults, she will be frank with you. Of course, if the relationship is to bloom between you Abhyuday and Disha, you both have to be as frank as you can.
Invite her for a casual lunch or dinner or meet at a mall or park so that you can get some quiet time with her. When you are both relaxed, you may broach the subject with her and watch her reactions. You may even ask her if she has anyone else in her life that she is interested in. if she answers in the affimative, then give her time to sort it all out. Meanwhile, be on your best behavior and remember not to sulk or get angry or upset, etc. Be the person that you want her to see even when things don’t work in your way.
This will breed good thoughts in her mind and she will remember you if things go wrong in her current relationship (if it exists)
Being on your best behavior even if you are terribly sad will enable Disha to see you as a true friend and possibly as a future partner.
Brightest Blessings.
Rose.