Hi Rose, hope all is well with you. I am having a problem with a mentally abusive husband. I have tried several time to get myself and my four daughters away from this man. Everytime he finds us. He has taken my children twice and ran away with them. The authorities say there is nothing they can do cuz we are still legally married. I have tried a few happy family rituals, i have tired a few banishing negetive energy spells. I’m now wondering what else can I try to get my children and myself to a safe n secure life now. do you have any suggestions on another type of spell to break his pattern of abuse to us. ? Thank you so very much, Free spirit Talley

Hello there Talley my dear,

Have you tried seeking the assistance of a lawyer and getting a divorce? If the situation is really that bad, then you need to think about the well being of not only yourself, but of your children as well – and leaving them in a place where there is such a lack of stability and so much turmoil cannot be good for them….

Barring that, I might suggest the following, given the extreme nature of the circumstances:

A Spell to Return Unwanted Attention

At some point or another most of us attract the attention of someone we would rather not. If they seem slow to take the hint, this spell should help in speeding things up. Cast it three days or three nights in a row when the moon is waning.

This spell is best cast outside, but if this is not possible it can still be performed indoors as well.

As this spell involves fire, it should always be performed with great care.

You will need:

Vervain leaves (Fresh is better, but dried leaves will work also)

A well-stoked fire

Consecrate the wood or coal before lighting the fire. When it has taken, throw the vervain onto the flames, calling out the name of the person you would like less attention from as loudly and with as much passion as you can muster.

Follow the name with these words, which should also be said with passion:

%u201CI want you not ever,

I need you not ever,

Leave my life now,

And come back never,

And let it be done, that it harm no one.%u201D

Spend a minute or two trying to see the person%u2019s face in the smoke of the fire and watch it waft away from you %u2013 never to return.