I can’t seem to get ahead no matter what I do, everyone around me is doing well. Is there a black cloud over me? A spell? I need help please~~

Merry Meet Seeker,
One of the most important rules in life is that we care about everyone and help everyone to the best of our ability. I am sure it is difficult to see everyone around you is doing well. However, how well you do know them? How well do you know their journey? Are you aware of their path before you met them? Do you have any idea where their path will take them?
I am asking all these questions because we really cannot compare people’s lives. Each of us have a goal and many paths to get to that goal. As more of us are aware, the Universe is always watching us to see what our thoughts and deeds are like. It is the responsibility of the Universe to dole out the joys and sorrows of life.
In most households, there is love, illness, anger, arguments, lack of joy, etc. In some of the homes, there may be spiritual people who will advise others (a grandfather or grandmother for instance) on how life works. However, the one theme of good people everywhere is that their life is wonderful. If we go and visit them, we may find that the grand-father is blind, the grandmother is really very sick and some of the children are drug addicts, etc. Yet, they put up a brave front so that all of the family can enjoy beautiful time together without arguing and fighting.
What I mean is that what we see may not really be the reality in most households. Just as you have mentioned in your household that you cannot get ahead, most people are struggling to make ends meet. However, the key to making more money is simple – Appreciate everything that comes your way and be generous to others.
The more love you give outwards, the happier you will be. If you go to a children’s shelter or a pet shelter and help them out, you may come home and find some money that you thought you had lost. Doing good deeds are rewarded almost immediately. However, do not do good deeds so that your life is going to be better. Do good deeds so that your heart fills with love and your approach to life changes in a positive way.
Change your attitude and you will see that your life trasforms in the best of ways.
Brightest Blessings.
Rose.