I just lost a love that I can’t seem to shake off. I have a room mate that excites me..but because of age differences he is much younger.. yet he flirts alot..I want him to make the first move…I am so sexually attracted to me.. though i do not want to fall in-love again…I just want the love making…. I just want to be in control…my personal love boy toy.

Hello there my dear, Another of the very common questions that I get is, %u201CDoes this person like me?%u201D And well, in general, my advice to people who are looking for quick answers to questions like this is to go and talk to the person. Try a bit of simple communication before resorting to casting spells or performing divination rituals. You%u2019ll be much happier in the long run that you did. Generally there are both verbal and visual cues that people exhibit when they are around someone that they like %u2013 and these are even more pronounced when they are around someone that they like in a more romantic sense. All you really do is learn to look for them. One of the easiest %u201Ctells%u201D is that people%u2019s eyes tend to slightly dilate when they are looking at something that they like. This is caused by a slight increase in blood pressure %u2013 that quickening of the heart effect that we feel when gazing at someone we love. It is sometimes difficult to see at first, but well, if you are spending enough time talking with them, you will no doubt notice it. Some other good indicators include the person in question touching you %u2013 whether it is something as simple as a playful poke or feigned punch, or making the excuse to pat your back, or touch your hand, or whatever. Most people do not go out of their way to touch people they do not like. Another good sign is if they are smiling a lot and being generally playful. That is usually a pretty good indication that they are happy when they are around you and it is manifesting itself in their mannerisms. And well, if all else fails, you could always buck up the courage and simply ask them if they are interested%u2026 or even ask them out. After all, nothing ventured, nothing gained%u2026.