Hi! I love your site! I can’t wait to order you long course. I am in a difficult relationship we have been married for 9 years. My husband is very moody tempermental and difficult to be around a lot of the time. He is also increadibly funny,intellectual and nice when he chooses to be. He does have some mental issues going on…I can’t explain exactly but he kind of acts like he has a very mild case of ausberger’s disease or autism..it’s hard for him to connect with humans in general..VERY good with Animals.. Anyway, to my point sorry, he knows that we may be headed for divorce and he told me that I had his permission to do any spell I wanted on him with him, us..or whatever…probably because he doesn’t believe in anything spiritual. So is it ok then to do a love spell? Can I do a pretty serious one? Since he said it is ok..and it is technically not going against his will? Thanks, Lindsay

Hello there Lindsay my dear, Generally I am very opposed to the use of love spells, as it takes away the free will of the person it is being cast on and thus it does them harm (which is in violation of the wiccan rede)…. But, if the person in question has given you expressed permission to use this type of magic on them, then I suppose in this particular circumstance it might be acceptable to perform a love spell upon them – though I would still counsel caution on your part – as you do not want to go mucking around with someone too much, or you will quickly find they are no longer the person you love due to all the changes they have undergone…. Even in this case, I will not offer you a love spell… but I will offer you a blessing to increase the chances of the love spell you invoke having beneficial effects…. A Blessing A simple candle spell%u2026. You will need: One White Candle Blessing Oil A Bolline or Burin Carve the name of the person to be blessed or your own name on the candle and dress it with the oil. For the next seven days burn an equal part of the candle, snuffing it out after these words 9or similar) have been spoken: %u201CMay nothing ever harm you. May love be yours to give and take. May nothing ever alarm you. May wealth be yours to make. May your health be good and your mind strong. May your friendships be the best. May your heart be strong and your life long. Dear (Insert name here), may you be blessed. And let it be done, that it harm no one.