do you do private meetings? i have a really tough situation and i don’t know if you will be able to help me. i will pay anything.

Hello there my dear,

Do I do private meetings? Well, the short answer would be, “No… I really do not.”

While I do enjoy getting to meet with a vast number of people via this on-line site, as I general rule, I try not to let my work here overlap into my personal life. Partially this is simply so that I can maintain some little bit of sanity with all of the other day to day things I have going on. But it also has a bit to do with a matter of safety – not only for myself, but for my family as well.

While I am sure that the majority of people I deal with on this site are nice, wonderful people – there will always be those few bad apples willing and able to spoil the whole bunch. And well, if it was just a matter of my own safety and well being, I might be more willing to gamble and take the chance on things. But I am not now, nor will I ever be willing to take that risk with my family and other loved ones.

So, my only real suggestion is for you to post your really tough situation here and I will see if there is some way that I might be able to help you work through whatever it is.