this guy i am seeing treats me bad but i feel like i need him?? has he put a spell on me. or am i in love?

Blessed Be, child.

I am so sorry to hear that the man you are seeing is treating you poorly, but you cannot place the blame for the way he treats you on love or a spell. Generally, when a woman allows a man to treat them poorly it is because the woman somehow believes that she deserves to be treated poorly.

Now maybe that’s not the way you feel exactly, but you say you feel like you need him. Why?  What about him attracts you and what about him makes you feel that you need him? And, does it have to be him or do you simply feel like you need someone as a lover, supporter, etc.?

Please do not misunderstand. Those feelings are perfectly normal. I don’t know of any woman who doesn’t prefer to have a partner to face the world with. However, if your partner is treating you poorly then they are undermining that support system you need and not doing anything to help you at all.

It is vitally important that you understand that no one can treat you poorly without your permission. And, if your partner is treating you poorly in the beginning fo your relationship, it is unlikely to get better. The sad truth is that what we allow in the beginning of a relatiosnhip is what people expect us to allow from then on. By letting him get away with treating you poorly now, you are eeffectivley saying he can do it forever.

Know that you are better than that and the Goddess has better things planned for you. Either tell him now and see if he can improve the way he treats or get out of the relationship.